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    October 27

    不要和消耗你的人在一起(转载)

    一大早起来,看到space上一个朋友的blog上的这段话,十分精彩,忍不住转过来~
     

    不要和消耗自己的人在一起 - 柏邦妮

     

    无论是朋友,是情人,是性伴侣,是同事,是老板,是下属……

    在所有的关系中,不要和消耗你的人在一起。

    不一定所有的关系都能滋养你,

    但是起码是收支平衡的,比较好。

    也许对方是一个百年不遇的天才,

    但是,我也不想让他用他的天才消耗我的平庸。

    我的平庸,并不想供奉给任何人,

    不想任凭谁予取予求。

    当然,收支很难计量,

    也许,他的光辉能照亮我心底的一块黑暗,给予我短暂的光环,

    就像月亮借了太阳的光辉,

    那也好,那就不叫消耗了。

    每年都会认识很多人,每年都会远离很多人。

    真正剩下来的朋友,没有一个是在消耗我的,

    她们支撑我,点拨我,扶持我,爱护我。

    真好!

    而我,也尽最大努力,不去消耗任何人。

    我希望我在任何一段关系中,都给予正面的力量,

    每一个在人世中遭遇我的人,都得到了光和热,

    哪怕是微不足道的分量。

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    zwrote:
    source&sink,看到这俩词就头大。。。
    Oct. 28
    嗯。房地产供暖工程里面有对术语:Heat Source 还有 Sink。
    Oct. 28
    严重同意
    Oct. 27
    Saijun Archwrote:
    真好!
    Oct. 27
    Haivanhoewrote:
    至理名言^
    Oct. 27
    真好!
    Oct. 27
    Indigowrote:
    Well said.
    Oct. 27
    Jane Changwrote:
    好早!up
    Oct. 27
    jing qiuwrote:
    收藏
    Oct. 27
    miaomiao xyzwrote:
    也喜欢~
    Oct. 27
    Danwrote:
    up up!
    Oct. 27
    wanziwrote:
    说得真好~

    一大早读到这样的文章,整个人都明亮起来了。
    Oct. 27

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